I’m sure we have all see the Dos Equis commercials featuring the most interesting man in the world. A suave older gentleman, aged like a fine wine, with a white beard and funny sayings. He is the epitome of manliness. Not in the sense that you should be fake or have strange stories. But in his attitude where he knows his strong points and always has something interesting to say because of his knowledge. He has a cool collected confidence about him. You must become the most interesting man in the world.
A bit of my inspiration for my article today came about when I saw this video on youtube ( https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hbt0ZuR5jI0 ). In general, it’s really funny that this guy gets girl’s numbers on the street. But there is a lesson to be learned here. It is a bit of a ridiculous example I admit, but you have to give credit where credit is due. The guy has some balls to approach girls like that randomly and spew out all of the BS that he does, but it works! Why does it work? Because he does it with confidence in himself, and he separates himself from every other guy out there.
You see, it doesn’t really matter that basically 90% of what he is saying is complete crap. You can say the dumbest things sometimes, but if they are amusing and if you say them with confidence then you can pull it off. The reason is because by doing what the guy did (saying amusing things with confidence), he made himself into the most interesting man in the world (or at least in that city).
Most guys approach women with dumb boring lines. ”Hey, how are you? What do you do for work?’ or “Wow, you are so beautiful,” and on and on. Not only that, almost every guy that approaches a women says stuff like that. So after a while it gets really old. Imagine if 20 women approached you in a day and each one told you that you’re hot but after that they had nothing else interesting to say. At first it would be a confidence booster and you would feel good about yourself. But after the 20th person to tell you that, it might start to sound redundant. Now imagine that happening to you almost EVERY day, ALL year long, EVERY year. You would get tired of hearing it and you would only pay attention to the people who said something different to you.
That is exactly what happens to women. So the guy that comes along with confidence and something interesting to talk about will suddenly become the most interesting man in the world. That’s what you have to strive to be!
Like we always say, there is no need to be fake or to lie in any way. You are already an interesting guy, you just need confidence in yourself. Also, it’s always good to become a learned man by reading the news often or watching various documentaries. You will then be able to speaking intelligently on any subject. Don’t just ask girls the normal “interview” questions, talk about the different experiences in your life and hers!
Pierre VonAyre aka “The Professor”