Why Rich Guys Get Laid, and You Don’t

There was a time in my life where I would be standing outside of a bumping club, impatiently waiting to get in.  All of a sudden, a guy would pull up in a matte black Lamborghini and would waltz right in the front door with a nod and a handshake to the bouncer.  No lines, no waiting.  Later I would see the same guy at a table with an expensive bottle and hot girls all around him.  In fact, he would have to turn girls away sometimes.  On the other side of the spectrum, there I was standing at the bar alone unsuccessfully trying to pick up that guy’s table scraps.  Has something similar ever happened to you? Continue reading

Fighting is for Chumps

There are some guys that I know that live to pick a fight, especially when they get to a certain level of drunkenness.  I’m sure many of you have also seen fights break out at bars or clubs (especially in college).  It’s exciting in a way, especially for men, to see these random fights break out.  We all know they aren’t gonna go anywhere, but it’s still entertaining to watch.  Heck, I even used to box so I like watching a good fight on tv!  However, the vast majority of women do NOT like fighting. Continue reading

Whip your Approach Anxiety into Submission

You’re standing at the bar and suddenly she walks in.  That stunning beauty dressed to tease with all the finest jewelry and eyes to kill.  All of the attraction alarms are going off in your head.  Immediately you want to approach her, to at least make an attempt to seal the deal.  This girl is way too hot to pass up!  However, the second you take a step closer to her, your heart starts to pound harder.  Your hands get a little shaky and the feeling of nervousness pulsates throughout your body.  The closer you get, the harder it pounds, until final you just give up and pretend you were walking to another part of the bar.  All of a sudden you find yourself on the other side of the room, occasionally glancing over at her hoping that you can somehow muster up the courage to approach her again.  Guess what, you have a case of approach anxiety my friend! Continue reading

Online Dating Step 1: Getting Started

Online dating; the final frontier.  A totally different part of the “dating world,” completely different than the night or day scene.  It is a place where you can meet more women in the span of an hour than you ever could in the field.  A place where it’s extremely easy to find many women which could be dating potential, but hard to actually get the one you want to talk to you.  Women get even more men messaging them online than they get approached in the field.  In a bar, a beautiful woman is surrounded by her friends who shield her from many approaches.  Also, guys are more timid to approach a woman in person.  However, online is a totally different story.

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