Failing with a Purpose

There is a little trick that only experienced pick up artists know about; that is failing on purpose.  Have you ever walked into a bar and immediately see a group of very attractive women that you want to talk to?  So, instinctively you make it your mission to talk to them FIRST.  You probably sit there and think about your approach, who you will talk to first, how will you open the group, and what to say after that.  After thinking about it, you start to get a little nervous.  Your nervousness starts to grow, and you even contemplate not approaching them at all.  When you do finally approach, you probably open up horribly and eventually get rejected. Continue reading

What’s Your Excuse Today?

There are those who will take risks, even if they make mistakes, and will eventually succeed.  They don’t let their fears or anxieties stop them.  They also use their mistakes as an opportunity to learn.  In fact, they almost go for the rejection because they know inwardly that they will learn more from them.  Then there are those who make every excuse in the book.  They continuously psych themselves out to the point where they barely make an approach at all. Continue reading

A Second Date Cancellation

There are certain things in this world that happen sporadically, in fact most things do.  It’s hard to set plans in stone because they never fall into place quite like we want them to.  However, there are certain events that seem to fall into a certain pattern.  One particular event happens after the second date, almost like clockwork.  It’s something that you can pretty much count on to happen, but is definitely not necessarily a bad thing. Continue reading