Maneuvering the B*tch Shield

So here you are trying to better yourself in every way so that you can start getting better with the ladies.  You try to wear all the right clothes, groom yourself nicely, and you work on your approach and conversational skills.  All good things.  You start going out regularly to popular night spots so that you can practice your newly developed skills.  You start finding that you are getting more and more successful as you practice.  But then, it happens.  You approach a girl casually trying to start a fun conversation, but she TOTALLY shuts you down (and not in a nice way either).  This is what we like to call a “bitch shield.”  In fact, the shut down is so brutal that you have never come across anything like it.  You’re totally blown out of the water, and even offended.  ”What did I do to deserve this?  I wasn’t even trying to be a jerk or anything!” Continue reading