There was a time in my life where I would be standing outside of a bumping club, impatiently waiting to get in. All of a sudden, a guy would pull up in a matte black Lamborghini and would waltz right in the front door with a nod and a handshake to the bouncer. No lines, no waiting. Later I would see the same guy at a table with an expensive bottle and hot girls all around him. In fact, he would have to turn girls away sometimes. On the other side of the spectrum, there I was standing at the bar alone unsuccessfully trying to pick up that guy’s table scraps. Has something similar ever happened to you? Continue reading
I would venture to say that ALL men desire to pick up a waitress at some point in their lives. Let’s face it, we all probably see AT LEAST one hot bartender or waitress every time we go out. However, the same thing seems to happen if we even venture to talk to them. You feel like you have good rapport with her, she’s even downright flirting with you. At the end of the night you ask for her number, or give her yours. One of three things always happens; you either get rejected, she never responds if you get her number, or she never hits you up if you give her yours. Continue reading
What is Tinder anyway? Well for those of you who have been living under a rock, Tinder is one of the hottest new dating apps. Another somewhat similar app is called Hinge. Basically what happens on Tinder is you go through many “profiles” (which are really just some pictures and a small about me blurb), and you either say Yay or Nay. If the other person also says Yay to you, then you get “matched” and the app allows you to message each other. It is completely anonymous so you don’t know who actually has said Yay to you and vice versa. Continue reading
I don’t know if everyone remembers from high school math class, but the symbol above means “does not equal.” What do I mean by the title? Well the answer is going to result in a bit of a rant, but will teach you to guard yourself against certain B/S theories that could mess with your mind, or will at the very least be utterly useless information.
If you’ve ever been to a club, or bar with a dance floor, then you can probably confirm the fact that the majority of people on the dance floor are females (or guys standing there gawking). If there are any guys on the dance floor actually dancing, they are usually those creepy dudes going up behind chicks and grinding on them randomly. Do NOT be that guy. If you are, stop now. Then there are those guys who go on the dance floor, fart, then leave. The last type of guy on the dance floor is a rare breed; those guys who know how to dance well and totally dominate the dance floor. I am one of those guys. Continue reading
There are a lot of guys out there trying to suggest that using canned lines when approaching women initially is the best way to go about doing it. While I see the point they’re making, and even somewhat agree with the practice, I think in the long run it isn’t really a beneficial thing to do. I mean I guess from the point of view of someone who is really shy, canned lines would be useful in stimulating conversation, but there are definitely better ways of doing so. I’ve tried it myself in the field and I learned some things in the process.