Online Dating Part 4: Searching Profiles and Messaging Girls

So far we have gone through the basics of creating your profile, picking the right pictures, etc.  Obviously, then you need to start your search.  Searching out the right girl is fairly easy, but actually picking the right ones to message is a little trickier.  Also, even more tricky is crafting the right message.  I can’t say with certainty that there is a DEFINITE message that will get every girl to answer you back right away, but you can get better results when you say the right things (just as if you were in the field).

As far as searching out the right girls, that’s only half the battle.  The good thing about online dating is that you can get an idea about how a girl is like even before you message her based on her profile and pictures.  You really want to use the search filters to your advantage in order to get a little more specific about what you want.  What you really need to do is figure out what you want in a woman and start searching for her. Continue reading