Valentine’s Day

With the “day of love” quickly approaching, many of you are probably feeling pressure to do something spectacular because your significant other loves valentine’s day.  Let me put your mind at ease a bit by saying this; your girl doesn’t necessarily want something big and grand.  In fact, it’s not really exactly what you give or do for her at all.  Rather it’s the thought and effort put into it. Continue reading

The First Kiss

The first kiss is one of the many milestones in a relationship with a woman.  There are those out there that talk about the “kiss close” when you are in the field.  That is usually when a guy will kiss a girl after only a few minutes of talking to them in order to seal the deal.  Others say that the best way is to kiss on the first date, and that if you don’t kiss then, you’re pretty much out of the picture.  I’m going with my own bit of advice concerning this matter. Continue reading

You Got Her Number, Now What?

You did it, you finally scored a number from that attractive girl you had been working on for 15 minutes at the bar.  You’re feeling accomplished and hopeful for all the possibilities in the future.  Stop right there!  At this point you really need to avoid thinking even past the first date.  That will make you way to vulnerable in all the wrong ways.  The first thing you need to do is work on your mindset before you even think of making contact with this chick.  At this point you need to have that laid back “who cares” kind of attitude.  If she answers back, cool.  If not, who cares.  And you really shouldn’t care!  There are more fish out there, so don’t put that pole away just yet. Continue reading

First Date Dilemma

Fact: the first date can make or totally destroy your chances with any girl.  The first date is really where you can shine and show the girl what kind of man you are (personality wise anyways).  Many guys make the mistake of picking the wrong venue for the first date, and even going overboard showing too much interest too soon.  I can give you sound advice on what steps to take on the first date in order to increase your chances of seeing this girl again. Continue reading