Failing with a Purpose

There is a little trick that only experienced pick up artists know about; that is failing on purpose.  Have you ever walked into a bar and immediately see a group of very attractive women that you want to talk to?  So, instinctively you make it your mission to talk to them FIRST.  You probably sit there and think about your approach, who you will talk to first, how will you open the group, and what to say after that.  After thinking about it, you start to get a little nervous.  Your nervousness starts to grow, and you even contemplate not approaching them at all.  When you do finally approach, you probably open up horribly and eventually get rejected. Continue reading

The Art of Dance

Many guys have the misconception that dancing is “girly.”  Quite the opposite!  A man who is good at dancing is seen as a guy who is fun, sexy, and who is good in bed.  Look at Channing Tatum; don’t forget that he became famous because of his dancing movies, and look how many girls think he’s hot!  I’ve actually never met a girl who didn’t think he was.  I’m going to share a revelation I had a few years ago at a dance club. Continue reading

Shooting Fish in a Barrel

I’m sure you’ve all heard the phrase “It’s like shooting fish in a barrel” before, but picking up women in the field is hardly like that, right?  Wrong.  There are certain things that you can do which will make the whole game much much easier for you.  So easy in fact, that you will be surprisingly amazed at how easy it actually is to get girls to talk to YOU.  Yes, you did read that correctly; girls will come out of their way to talk  to YOU! Continue reading

What’s Your Excuse Today?

There are those who will take risks, even if they make mistakes, and will eventually succeed.  They don’t let their fears or anxieties stop them.  They also use their mistakes as an opportunity to learn.  In fact, they almost go for the rejection because they know inwardly that they will learn more from them.  Then there are those who make every excuse in the book.  They continuously psych themselves out to the point where they barely make an approach at all. Continue reading

You Got Her Number, Now What?

You did it, you finally scored a number from that attractive girl you had been working on for 15 minutes at the bar.  You’re feeling accomplished and hopeful for all the possibilities in the future.  Stop right there!  At this point you really need to avoid thinking even past the first date.  That will make you way to vulnerable in all the wrong ways.  The first thing you need to do is work on your mindset before you even think of making contact with this chick.  At this point you need to have that laid back “who cares” kind of attitude.  If she answers back, cool.  If not, who cares.  And you really shouldn’t care!  There are more fish out there, so don’t put that pole away just yet. Continue reading

Whip your Approach Anxiety into Submission

You’re standing at the bar and suddenly she walks in.  That stunning beauty dressed to tease with all the finest jewelry and eyes to kill.  All of the attraction alarms are going off in your head.  Immediately you want to approach her, to at least make an attempt to seal the deal.  This girl is way too hot to pass up!  However, the second you take a step closer to her, your heart starts to pound harder.  Your hands get a little shaky and the feeling of nervousness pulsates throughout your body.  The closer you get, the harder it pounds, until final you just give up and pretend you were walking to another part of the bar.  All of a sudden you find yourself on the other side of the room, occasionally glancing over at her hoping that you can somehow muster up the courage to approach her again.  Guess what, you have a case of approach anxiety my friend! Continue reading

The Game is Won or Lost in your Mind

You always seem to hear that line from high school coaches or in motivational sports movies.  It is perhaps a bit cliché, but we here at Seduction Wolf can’t deny the truth behind it.  It all starts with your mindset going into the field.  If you’re depressed and have a bad attitude, it’s going to show.  If you are mentally confident and feel on top of the world, then you’re going to have a good night.  A perfect example can be seen by examining the actions of my friend Jake.

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