Spring has Sprung

It’s finally here!  The time of year when the ladies start trading in bulky jackets and sweaters for shorter skimpier clothing.  Every man’s favorite time of year, especially for those of you who live in the colder states (such as myself).  You guys in the warmer states don’t know what it’s like to trade in your tan for a nice Winter White. Continue reading

Be a Wolf, Not a Hyena

There are a lot of dudes out there throwing out advice these days.  Some good, some bad.  I have recently become aware of some people telling guys about kiss closing the deal, but in a way that’s TOO fast.  Now, I’m no prude and I’m not against a kiss close at a bar.  Hell, if a girl is into you and you’re getting all the signs then it’s definitely possible to successfully initiate the kiss close!  But, that isn’t what some guys are saying. Continue reading

Evolution ≠ The Pickup Game

I don’t know if everyone remembers from high school math class, but the symbol above means “does not equal.”  What do I mean by the title?  Well the answer is going to result in a bit of a rant, but will teach you to guard yourself against certain B/S theories that could mess with your mind, or will at the very least be utterly useless information.

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Systems Can Kill

March Madness is upon us folks!  I’m sure a lot of you out there will start getting into the action, and have already filled out your brackets.  I’ve passed in my Billion Dollar bracket for Warren Buffet…just waiting on that billion dollars now.  As you watch the games, think about something which I am going to make a point about.  Watch how natural the players look as they play the game they love.  They move around the court with grace, speed, and agility.  Continue reading

Lesson Learned

It’s funny how life can throw you lessons in strange ways sometimes, even indirectly.  It is always important to stay aware of what people are saying and doing around you because you never know where the lesson may come from.  Watch, listen, think.  A few days ago I was listening to a conversation between a couple girls who I’m friends with.  I wasn’t creeping in on their conversation, but was rather in the same room doing something else. Continue reading

Online Dating Part 4: Searching Profiles and Messaging Girls

So far we have gone through the basics of creating your profile, picking the right pictures, etc.  Obviously, then you need to start your search.  Searching out the right girl is fairly easy, but actually picking the right ones to message is a little trickier.  Also, even more tricky is crafting the right message.  I can’t say with certainty that there is a DEFINITE message that will get every girl to answer you back right away, but you can get better results when you say the right things (just as if you were in the field).

As far as searching out the right girls, that’s only half the battle.  The good thing about online dating is that you can get an idea about how a girl is like even before you message her based on her profile and pictures.  You really want to use the search filters to your advantage in order to get a little more specific about what you want.  What you really need to do is figure out what you want in a woman and start searching for her. Continue reading

Style Addition of the Week: All Business, No Play

As I study the change in style trends going on, I am noticing that the “professional” style is really becoming popular.  It’s trendy to go out in a tucked-in button down with a tie and a nice pair of wing tip shoes.  That’s ballin.  It’s starting to be cool to rock the business look, like you just came out of a meeting.  Of course other guys won’t really think so, but who honestly cares what guys think? Continue reading

If You Don’t Have Anything Nice to Say

Then don’t say anything at all.  Hasn’t your mother ever told you that before?  If not, then hear me now.  It’s easy to be that guy who gets laughs by making fun of other people around him, especially those drunk idiots doing dumb things around you.  But what happens when you’re talking to a girl, you see someone being weird and make fun of them, then that person turns out to be related to the person you’re talking to?  Spoiler alert: you’re out. Continue reading

Valentine’s Day

With the “day of love” quickly approaching, many of you are probably feeling pressure to do something spectacular because your significant other loves valentine’s day.  Let me put your mind at ease a bit by saying this; your girl doesn’t necessarily want something big and grand.  In fact, it’s not really exactly what you give or do for her at all.  Rather it’s the thought and effort put into it. Continue reading