There are many of you out there that probably have recently been dumped, or feel like you are soon to be dumped. Don’t be ashamed! You aren’t the only one. We have all been through heartbreak, and unfortunately in “the game” there will always be heartbreak. Even the BEST pick up artist of all time have been through heartbreak at one time or another. It makes you a stronger and wiser if you take the right steps when you have been heartbroken.
You need to get over this girl, and you need to do it NOW. You see, even if you DO want her back, you NEED to get over her in order to get her back. I know it sounds weird, but trust me when I say that I know what I’m talking about. My biggest heartbreak landed me in a deep depression for 4 months! But through that I learned what it takes to get over it, and what to do to get her back. I have coached many many guys, and I know the patterns that occur and how to get your ex-girlfriend back. But if you just want to straight up get over your ex, then you need to follow my method as well.
Trust me, when you finally get over her that is when she will actually contact YOU. If you try to contact her first, that will actually push her away and will get you farther and farther from getting her back. Therefore, you need to distance yourself in any way possible. By distancing yourself, you will give her space to start thinking about you. Ever heard the old saying “absence makes the heart grow fonder”? Well that is completely true. She won’t miss you unless you are out of the picture.
You need to fight the urge to contact her in any way. But you also need to rid yourself of things that make you think of her. This part is going to hurt, but it is VERY necessary! You NEED to do this. First, get rid of ALL pictures. That means every picture on your facebook, phone, physical pictures, etc. You may be thinking, “well if I get rid of my pictures on FB, then she will get mad that I erased them.” She may or may not get mad, but that’s not your problem because you aren’t together anymore. And hey, if she’s mad at you that means she’s thinking about you right?
You also need to erase all phone numbers, her friend’s and family member’s phone numbers, all of them. Cut off all connections. The reason you need to do this is because you need to get rid of any excuse to contact her. Give all those numbers to a trusted friend or something if you really want, but get them away from yourself.
This “cutting off” process is what will start to trigger the healing, and what will help you start moving on. I know it hurts, because when I did it I was torn apart. It felt like I was ripping her out of my heart and mind, and it was actually painful. But you know what? You will be a better man for it! I have helped many friends through this process, and it works every time! Stay tuned for the next step in How to Get Your Ex Back.
Pierre VonAyre aka “The Professor”