The First Kiss

The first kiss is one of the many milestones in a relationship with a woman.  There are those out there that talk about the “kiss close” when you are in the field.  That is usually when a guy will kiss a girl after only a few minutes of talking to them in order to seal the deal.  Others say that the best way is to kiss on the first date, and that if you don’t kiss then, you’re pretty much out of the picture.  I’m going with my own bit of advice concerning this matter. Continue reading

You Got Her Number, Now What?

You did it, you finally scored a number from that attractive girl you had been working on for 15 minutes at the bar.  You’re feeling accomplished and hopeful for all the possibilities in the future.  Stop right there!  At this point you really need to avoid thinking even past the first date.  That will make you way to vulnerable in all the wrong ways.  The first thing you need to do is work on your mindset before you even think of making contact with this chick.  At this point you need to have that laid back “who cares” kind of attitude.  If she answers back, cool.  If not, who cares.  And you really shouldn’t care!  There are more fish out there, so don’t put that pole away just yet. Continue reading