A Comprehensive Guide to Talking to College Girls

Most of what I have to say in this post involves what NOT to talk about with college girls.  Therefore, this post is targeted to all of you college guys out there.  Any 35 year olds reading this, get a life.

Though I am no longer in college, I do remember some of the tactics I tried in order to pick up college girls, which has helped me to learn what to talk about and what not to talk about.  First things first, I’m sure you will go out and see girls at parties, or elsewhere on campus, who you have classes with.  Do NOT approach those girls and talk about the class you are in with them.  In fact, avoid the topic of “class” all together.  That goes for any girl you are talking to.  Don’t talk about class, teachers, or homework.  This is especially important if you are at a party. Continue reading

Whip your Approach Anxiety into Submission

You’re standing at the bar and suddenly she walks in.  That stunning beauty dressed to tease with all the finest jewelry and eyes to kill.  All of the attraction alarms are going off in your head.  Immediately you want to approach her, to at least make an attempt to seal the deal.  This girl is way too hot to pass up!  However, the second you take a step closer to her, your heart starts to pound harder.  Your hands get a little shaky and the feeling of nervousness pulsates throughout your body.  The closer you get, the harder it pounds, until final you just give up and pretend you were walking to another part of the bar.  All of a sudden you find yourself on the other side of the room, occasionally glancing over at her hoping that you can somehow muster up the courage to approach her again.  Guess what, you have a case of approach anxiety my friend! Continue reading

First Date Dilemma

Fact: the first date can make or totally destroy your chances with any girl.  The first date is really where you can shine and show the girl what kind of man you are (personality wise anyways).  Many guys make the mistake of picking the wrong venue for the first date, and even going overboard showing too much interest too soon.  I can give you sound advice on what steps to take on the first date in order to increase your chances of seeing this girl again. Continue reading

The Most Interesting Man in the World

I’m sure we have all see the Dos Equis commercials featuring the most interesting man in the world.  A suave older gentleman, aged like a fine wine, with a white beard and funny sayings.  He is the epitome of manliness.  Not in the sense that you should be fake or have strange stories.  But in his attitude where he knows his strong points and always has something interesting to say because of his knowledge.  He has a cool collected confidence about him.  You must become the most interesting man in the world. Continue reading

Become an Expert Conversationalist

Many men cannot hold or carry a conversation, my previous self included. I was one of those guys who a) didn’t have anything to say, and b) didn’t really care about having to say something. I simply wanted to get down a woman’s pants as soon as possible. However, this always back fired. I did not know why at the time but with more practice, and now being an expert in the pick up field, I know EXACTLY why I failed. Continue reading

Why Canned Lines get you Nowhere

There are a lot of guys out there trying to suggest that using canned lines when approaching women initially is the best way to go about doing it.  While I see the point they’re making, and even somewhat agree with the practice, I think in the long run it isn’t really a beneficial thing to do.  I mean I guess from the point of view of someone who is really shy, canned lines would be useful in stimulating conversation, but there are definitely better ways of doing so.  I’ve tried it myself in the field and I learned some things in the process.

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Real Conversations with Women, Nicholas vs. Subway

Nicholas was walking into Subway because he wanted to get a chicken sub. On his way through the parking lot, he spotted a cute blonde woman in her mid-20′s with a cute black sweater walking toward Subway as well. As Nicholas was about 15 feet behind her, she opened the door to walk in and stopped holding the door open for Nicholas. Nicholas thanks her and enters Subway with her. Subway was pretty quiet. In fact, it was so quiet that it was only Nicholas and the black sweater cutie standing in line. And you know Nicholas, of course he had to say something! Continue reading

Real Conversations with Women, Nicholas vs. Beach Towel

So Nicholas has to go buy a beach towel. Don’t ask why. He just does. So he walks into your local Macy’s and has two options: 1) Nicholas can go around and actually look for a beach towel (who does that?) or 2) Nicholas can pick up a beautiful woman in the process. Nicholas chooses option 2. Continue reading

Real Conversations with Women, Nicholas vs. David Beckham

There is a science to having conversations with women. The science is to captivate their attention for a good period of time so that you have them laughing over and over. Laughter is a powerful tool that you should use when having conversations. No women will hate you or not want to talk to you if you can make them laugh. Trust me, there’s been times where I stop talking to women, even on bad terms, and weeks or months later they message me because they want to laugh again. It’s like a powerful drug. Continue reading

Should I Pickup a Woman on the Street? Part 1

I think a better question would be, should I pick up a winning lottery ticket that is on the ground in a barn in the middle of nowhere? Yes! What do you mean should you pickup a woman on the street? You could pickup beautiful women anywhere and everywhere. There is not a place which will limit or hinder your ability to pick up a woman. Now the keyword is “ability”. Most men do not have the ability to carry a conversation with a woman so they chicken out when it comes to the pickup. And if a beautiful woman was to walk pass them on the street, well then forget about it! Continue reading