Maneuvering the B*tch Shield

So here you are trying to better yourself in every way so that you can start getting better with the ladies.  You try to wear all the right clothes, groom yourself nicely, and you work on your approach and conversational skills.  All good things.  You start going out regularly to popular night spots so that you can practice your newly developed skills.  You start finding that you are getting more and more successful as you practice.  But then, it happens.  You approach a girl casually trying to start a fun conversation, but she TOTALLY shuts you down (and not in a nice way either).  This is what we like to call a “bitch shield.”  In fact, the shut down is so brutal that you have never come across anything like it.  You’re totally blown out of the water, and even offended.  ”What did I do to deserve this?  I wasn’t even trying to be a jerk or anything!” Continue reading

Beware of Samantha Syndrome

This article is a follow up of sorts to the one that I wrote last week on how to be successful with dating apps, like Tinder and Hinge.  There is a very rare, but powerful phenomena that may or may not happen to some of you.  I call it Samantha Syndrome.  It happened to me once in high school, then happened again when I was in college.  It also happened to a friend of mine.  Like I said, it is very rare but could happen to you.  I’m writing this to warn any of you who are thinking of using dating apps or websites, so that you can see the signals. Continue reading

Better to Give than to Receive

We’ve all heard that old saying around Christmas time that, “It’s better give than to receive.”  The same goes when you are dealing with women and sex.  But there is a particular reason why.  I can assure you that it will benefit you MUCH more if you get into the mindset of giving.  There is a purpose as to why I am writing this article, and it is as a result of a conversation that I had with an ex-girlfriend. Continue reading

The Rules of Engagement

For sure, there is safety in structure.  What I mean by that is, the dynamics of the nightlife scene require you to be structured in how you attack it.  We here at Seduction Wolf believe that there are certain “rules” you have to follow in order to ensure that you have a good night.  Now, I’m not talking about rules regarding what you say to women, but how you actually go about maneuvering and interacting with the night scene. Continue reading

Spring has Sprung

It’s finally here!  The time of year when the ladies start trading in bulky jackets and sweaters for shorter skimpier clothing.  Every man’s favorite time of year, especially for those of you who live in the colder states (such as myself).  You guys in the warmer states don’t know what it’s like to trade in your tan for a nice Winter White. Continue reading

Be a Wolf, Not a Hyena

There are a lot of dudes out there throwing out advice these days.  Some good, some bad.  I have recently become aware of some people telling guys about kiss closing the deal, but in a way that’s TOO fast.  Now, I’m no prude and I’m not against a kiss close at a bar.  Hell, if a girl is into you and you’re getting all the signs then it’s definitely possible to successfully initiate the kiss close!  But, that isn’t what some guys are saying. Continue reading

Online Dating Part 4: Searching Profiles and Messaging Girls

So far we have gone through the basics of creating your profile, picking the right pictures, etc.  Obviously, then you need to start your search.  Searching out the right girl is fairly easy, but actually picking the right ones to message is a little trickier.  Also, even more tricky is crafting the right message.  I can’t say with certainty that there is a DEFINITE message that will get every girl to answer you back right away, but you can get better results when you say the right things (just as if you were in the field).

As far as searching out the right girls, that’s only half the battle.  The good thing about online dating is that you can get an idea about how a girl is like even before you message her based on her profile and pictures.  You really want to use the search filters to your advantage in order to get a little more specific about what you want.  What you really need to do is figure out what you want in a woman and start searching for her. Continue reading

If You Don’t Have Anything Nice to Say

Then don’t say anything at all.  Hasn’t your mother ever told you that before?  If not, then hear me now.  It’s easy to be that guy who gets laughs by making fun of other people around him, especially those drunk idiots doing dumb things around you.  But what happens when you’re talking to a girl, you see someone being weird and make fun of them, then that person turns out to be related to the person you’re talking to?  Spoiler alert: you’re out. Continue reading

Valentine’s Day

With the “day of love” quickly approaching, many of you are probably feeling pressure to do something spectacular because your significant other loves valentine’s day.  Let me put your mind at ease a bit by saying this; your girl doesn’t necessarily want something big and grand.  In fact, it’s not really exactly what you give or do for her at all.  Rather it’s the thought and effort put into it. Continue reading