The Art of Isolation

Gentlemen, there is an art to this whole pickup game, which you will soon discover once you get more experience.  You paint a picture in the girl’s mind of what kind of man you are using your words.  I am NOT talking about lying, but rather showing her the funny confident guy that you REALLY are.  Using funny witty comebacks to put her back in her place, but also building her attraction to you.  You also use the art of Smooth Seduction to take her attraction to the next level.  But, there is one technique which is vital to you getting the results you desire; the Art of Isolation. Continue reading

Maneuvering the B*tch Shield

So here you are trying to better yourself in every way so that you can start getting better with the ladies.  You try to wear all the right clothes, groom yourself nicely, and you work on your approach and conversational skills.  All good things.  You start going out regularly to popular night spots so that you can practice your newly developed skills.  You start finding that you are getting more and more successful as you practice.  But then, it happens.  You approach a girl casually trying to start a fun conversation, but she TOTALLY shuts you down (and not in a nice way either).  This is what we like to call a “bitch shield.”  In fact, the shut down is so brutal that you have never come across anything like it.  You’re totally blown out of the water, and even offended.  ”What did I do to deserve this?  I wasn’t even trying to be a jerk or anything!” Continue reading

Beware of Samantha Syndrome

This article is a follow up of sorts to the one that I wrote last week on how to be successful with dating apps, like Tinder and Hinge.  There is a very rare, but powerful phenomena that may or may not happen to some of you.  I call it Samantha Syndrome.  It happened to me once in high school, then happened again when I was in college.  It also happened to a friend of mine.  Like I said, it is very rare but could happen to you.  I’m writing this to warn any of you who are thinking of using dating apps or websites, so that you can see the signals. Continue reading

Success on Tinder

What is Tinder anyway?  Well for those of you who have been living under a rock, Tinder is one of the hottest new dating apps.  Another somewhat similar app is called Hinge.  Basically what happens on Tinder is you go through many “profiles” (which are really just some pictures and a small about me blurb), and you either say Yay or Nay.  If the other person also says Yay to you, then you get “matched” and the app allows you to message each other.  It is completely anonymous so you don’t know who actually has said Yay to you and vice versa. Continue reading