Evolution ≠ The Pickup Game

I don’t know if everyone remembers from high school math class, but the symbol above means “does not equal.”  What do I mean by the title?  Well the answer is going to result in a bit of a rant, but will teach you to guard yourself against certain B/S theories that could mess with your mind, or will at the very least be utterly useless information.

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Systems Can Kill

March Madness is upon us folks!  I’m sure a lot of you out there will start getting into the action, and have already filled out your brackets.  I’ve passed in my Billion Dollar bracket for Warren Buffet…just waiting on that billion dollars now.  As you watch the games, think about something which I am going to make a point about.  Watch how natural the players look as they play the game they love.  They move around the court with grace, speed, and agility.  Continue reading

Lesson Learned

It’s funny how life can throw you lessons in strange ways sometimes, even indirectly.  It is always important to stay aware of what people are saying and doing around you because you never know where the lesson may come from.  Watch, listen, think.  A few days ago I was listening to a conversation between a couple girls who I’m friends with.  I wasn’t creeping in on their conversation, but was rather in the same room doing something else. Continue reading

Online Dating Part 4: Searching Profiles and Messaging Girls

So far we have gone through the basics of creating your profile, picking the right pictures, etc.  Obviously, then you need to start your search.  Searching out the right girl is fairly easy, but actually picking the right ones to message is a little trickier.  Also, even more tricky is crafting the right message.  I can’t say with certainty that there is a DEFINITE message that will get every girl to answer you back right away, but you can get better results when you say the right things (just as if you were in the field).

As far as searching out the right girls, that’s only half the battle.  The good thing about online dating is that you can get an idea about how a girl is like even before you message her based on her profile and pictures.  You really want to use the search filters to your advantage in order to get a little more specific about what you want.  What you really need to do is figure out what you want in a woman and start searching for her. Continue reading